My parents taught me without saying a word, that while we may be part of society and share a culture and history with society, we can pick and choose which parts we want to keep for ourselves.
For Halloween, for example. My parents didn't like the phrase "Trick or Treat'. I forget the exact way they phrased it, but basically you're threatening to trick people unless they give you candy. So they taught us to always say "Happy Halloween" instead.
Oh, they also never taught us to believe in Santa Claus.
They didn't like black comedy. Mom didn't like us having the TV on when we ate together, and they didn't have cable TV.
So we were part of society, but we were also sometimes different. Maybe even a bit nerdy and weird.
And that's okay. For the most part I kind of liked it. Sure, it's a bit weird to have everyone talking about a show you've never seen. But years later I saw an episode of that show (Beavis and Butthead) and tbh I don't really understand why it was that popular in the first place.
The point of all that is to say this:
While I would not say I'm completely independent, that I never follow a crowd or do things without thinking, if I have decided something than it's decided.
And I don't really care how many people disagree.
That's kind of where I am with regards to vaccines, and with regards to Trump.
For vaccines - and the Covid vaccine in particular - it has been six years since Covid hit. Almost six years since the vaccine was released. And unless there are long term consequences in twenty-thirty years that we won't learn about until we've reached that, we have pretty good data on it's effects and side effects.
There are studies now that are able to look, county by county, and compare the vaccination rates to the death rates and hospitalization rates.
It has been long enough that the data is available. We're not waiting for reports to trickle in.
And the evidence is overwhelming clear.
Vaccines save lives.
This is not up for debate. This is not in doubt.
And anyone trying to argue differently just makes me question their judgement.
Which, given the widespread anti-vax attitude, means that I'm questioning the judgement of quite a few people. Some of them even somewhat distant family members that I care about.
It's a similar story with Trump supporters. The fastest way to make me question your ability to make good decisions is to tell me you support Trump.
The fastest way to make me question whether billionaires deserve their wealth is to see them propping up and enabling Trump. (And see the way they treat their employees too, tbh.)
I don't really care how many people seem swayed, how many sing his praises, how many cheer. All it does is show how deep the rot has spread.
And right now, it's clearly spread pretty deep.
The problem, right now, is what we're going to do about it.
I don't want an America that makes people 'disappear', whether their immigrants or not.
I don't want an America that bombs civilian boats, especially when their engines could have been shot and evidence collected. If they're drug runners doing something illegal, arrest them. Whatever happened to due process?
There's so many statements that start like that. So many things I thought we cared about, that apparently 'we' do not.
I am worried about the midterms. Not so much the votes themselves, since it seems quite clear that the midterms will go against Trump and his sycophants and manipulators.
I am worried because they've already proven they don't care about the rule of law. They're already continuing to lay the groundwork to sow doubts if they lose. To try to mobilize their supporters and overturn the results when they don't go their way.
These people are clearly the type who will keep pushing, and pushing, until someone forcefully makes them stop...
And I don't see the willpower to make them stop.
Not consistently, at least.
Not on the same level.